You Are Not Complaining
With my private clients, my first question to them is almost always, “How are you feeling,” or “How is your body?” As you can imagine the answer can vary greatly from person to person and day to day. But often when someone has pain somewhere and they tell me about it multiple weeks in a row, they start to apologize.
Even in my group classes when someone informs me of something going on in their body, if they are still bringing it up a few weeks later, they will often apologize. I’ve done this myself when I take classes. No one wants to be seen as a whiner. And none of us wants our body to hurt.
But I can’t preface enough, you are not whining. You are not complaining. I need and want to know what is going in your body. It helps me help you move better. The more feedback the better.
I’m not sure where this apology comes from—a desire to please (thinking any pain or injury makes us less pleasing), a frustration in the discomfort itself that we’d just like to will away, the fact that in our society we […]